At The End Of The Day | Abstract Thinking

Shinta Paramita
2 min readOct 7, 2022

We are being told that there’s an happy ending or sad ending. But how could you tell that ‘that’ moment was the end? or that place was the last destination? No one would ever know until it happened. The coffee that you drink this morning might be the last coffee you ever drink and the kiss we shared last night might be the last touch we did. There’s a beauty in the uncertainty : it makes us appreciate the present. We are busy regretting the past and overthinking the future that we don’t realize we are wasting the present. What happiness means to you? would you sacrifice the one that holds important place in your life for the shake of happiness? or would you take the misery for the important aspect of your life? The euphoric feeling of being in love is one thing but the ecstasy that you feel when the person you love is loving you back is the luck not everyone could have. Like the eclipse, it doesn’t occur frequently but when the timing is right. Have you ever loved someone that you pray for that person’s happiness with or without you in it? That genuine love is so underrated. Most love associated with possession and lustfulness. But those love between a mother and her kids for example, that’s the purest kind of love. Those kind of love is real, it’s authentic. If you ever love someone else like that, you’re so brave. All your life you give and give while knowing you’ll not getting the same thing you did for other people or even you’ll get hurt eventually. What a big heart you have. At the end of the day all you did has nothing to do with how other’s treat you. The way people acted or treat you is their projections, an unconscious defense mechanism stemming from the ego. So don’t confused their reaction of what you did. Everything that you did it’s all your choice and we can’t blame others for it. It’s your responsibility and you’re the only one who can control yourself and you can’t control others.

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